long time it has been AGAIN! the new year is here and rolling on! My mission this year is to declutter,redecorate and gain conrtol of my house! aka take is away from all the males in my house I AM OUT NUMBERED! First the master closet, however after reading just about everydecluttering book i can get me hands on they all say to not start with your closet. But i can not stand it and have already taken a load of clothes to the thrift store. While i am not a hoarder like on the tv show, i have too much stuff! we will see what happpens with MANY trips to the thrift store and loads of fresh cheery paint. smooches and hugs to the masses!

THE NEXT BLOG...AGAIN

i have not been here in a while. and apparently i am a watcher..not in a perverse way..lol however again id you ever hit the button that says "next blog"? i dont know what order they are in because it will give a different blog from day to day. it makes me wonder who i am after. whos'd "next" am I? it is a peek into the "next" life. cute baby pics of obvious random people,pics of their homes and spouses. its like looking in a crowd full of people and taking a peek. i know kind of twisted. why do they have that button if you are not suppose to click it. or maybe you are suppose to click it idk..but i like to click.. i am a closet clicker

addendum to "it's been a while"

HA HA on me...as it turns out I had linked this blog to FB...so after a morning of tears ,kissing ass to all who i offended. Which i should not have to "be sorry" for any of it because had they read correctly they would have realized that NONE of it was towards ANYONE that I am friends with on FB. My God, the ex-wife's mother is praying for me. No offense to God , but really? My private (yes i realize it is an elecronic blog, however who looks for me? Exactly) mental breakdown turned into crazyness from the husband, slighted feeling from his ex-wife..just on and on . I would have done better for myself to take a pack of smokes and a book and pretend to read and cry my eyes out on the patio. Why did i link to FB? i have no idea and i don't even remember doing it. ugh the insanity of it all! here i dont have to use correct capital letters or spell it right i can just put it down and get it out. so ha ha again ..i have unlinked to fb. God help me if i didnt do it right. AND IF YOU ARE SEARCHING FOR ME AND FIND THIS BLOG THEN YOU MY FRIEND NEED A LIFE CAUSE ALL I AM DOING HERE IS SCREAMING TO THE STARS AND THE ZEROS AND THE ONES...

its been a while.....

I am afraid to admitt that I have become lost in the Facebook jungle. But, I enjoy it. However, I enjoying smoking too. hmmm. In 12 days Ronnie and I set sail on the Triumph. I CAN NOT wait. My parents, for our birthdays gave us this trip. Of course my mouth is still hanging open. 7 days ALONE with my husband. wow. Let me say first that i do love my life, however it is not always the little blips on facebook that tend to make everyones life look like a bowl full of cherries. Why is that ? Most people ALWAYS ONLY tell the bad stuff. But not on FB. Do you think it is a stature thing. You really dont want these people to know that at this very moment you want to crawl under a rock and die? But then isn't that the point of having friends so someone (besides the tear stained person in the mirror)knows just how rotton your day has been? So, then I am led to believe that maybe the people that I am friends with on FB are really friends. Why would you blab blab blab about this and that on there? off of that soap box. I have a huge black suitcase on my bed right now ..12 days ahead of time ...looking for what to put in it. did i say i was ready? i am so ready...so jealous..so fed up..so tired...worn down...i could go on but what is the point.. jealous - i am jealous of the fact that my husband is a upstanding dad and gets his son everyother weekend and sometime many weekends in a row. I am jealous that his son's mother gets the weekend off. it pisses me off actually. not pissed at her, pissed at MY situation. Pissed my son dosent even know that Ronnie is not his father because the pos that i married (aka the sperm donor) has no contact with his son..Is it better that he does not have contact. DAMN STRAIGHT...however i can still be pissed about it. My son will be a better man for it. fed up....i am doing the work of 2 people at my job, which they will continue to do so until i fall out of my chair and to add to insult i will never make more money because i do not have the right parts between my legs. tired.....i think my thyroid is messed up again....and my numbers are off. Either that or not enough rest. i go to the gym 2 times a week and then feel so damn guilty about being away from them that i really dont do all that i should so i can get back home. so do i feel better venting? of course not. could i say all of this to the hubby probally and would i feel better then ? no I NEED A BREAK!!!!!! i cant wait until the cruise until we go and i will sit on the deck and look at the clouds roll by and let the tear slide down my face and thank God . so now let me go post on FB how wonderful my weekend was. love to whoever is out there

Easy Sunday Afternoon

i am actually riding down the road,well ronnie is driving.. taking drake back to his mama, my folks came down today to take me to lunch for my birthday as they will not be here (the Jackson Hole trip) had a very nice lunch and so looking forward to time with ronnie on our own and then our trip to natchez...ahhh. peace comes over me. our time and weekends without kids are very few and far between and we cherish them greatly and i can not wait. hopeing still that steven has fun,however i am ready for some us time. i truely feel like i am where i am suppose to be. hope all had and are having a wonderful Sunday

vacation planned

we have the cutest cottage on the bluff of the mississippi reserved, i can't wait. tried for bilioxi but they wanted way too much money. and if i can ride everyday between now and then and i pass my written on the 20th and i make a city ride with the biker man WITHOUT giving him a heart attack then we will take the bikes to natchez. took steven shopping today with his birthday money he sure can be sweet when he is getting what he wants out of life, the little turkey. Ronnie got a memorial tatoo for his daughter yesterday, it turned out pretty good. i was so relieved that he did't get it on his chest where he had thought about. it is pretty cool in a tatoo sort of way a heart,coss and angel wings and say" Forever in God's arms and then forever in my heart. now the big joke is when will i get my tatoo. can you see it? my mother would just die, she is already convinced that steven will turn into someone that will join a biker gang.i just have to laugh. i am feeling pretty rested and ready to atttack the next week. everyone have a good week

can 5 ever get here??????? we have the grandbaby tonight, i have to get a picture posted. i keep trying to get him to call me Meme and it comes out mawmaw. go ahead and laugh . i am not maw maw. can i go home now, please......